Are you thinking to become parents through a surrogacy journey? Are you looking for a surrogate mother? In this blog post you will find a five steps guide that will help you during your surrogacy journey to find a surrogate
5 steps surrogacy guideStep 1: Consider all your options.
Are you going to pursue a traditional or a gestational surrogacy journey? Are you going to work an agency or you prefer to go intendent? Do you know about the local regulation regarding surrogacy in your country?
Step 2: Talk It over
Talk with your family, friends and colleagues that you want to become parent through surrogacy and that you are looking for a surrogate mother. Sometimes the mouth to mouth can help you to find a surrogate mother.
Step 3: Hire a surrogacy agency.
If you are not able to find a surrogate mother on your own perhaps you need to consider the option to hire an agency. Besides supporting with the search of your surrogate they will guide you during the whole process.
Step 4: Hire a n experienced family attorney
It’s really important that you get in contact with a reputable lawyer and you get legal advice regarding the legal process in the country where your surrogate lives and also in your own country (if you are following and international surrogacy process)
Step 5: Pick up your fertility clinic
It’s important that you choose a fertility clinic with high successful rates located close to the residence of your surrogate mother
Three advices to find the right surrogateSome Tips to remember while you search for gestational carrier:
1- Ask a lot of questions and be totally honest with her
2- Discuss about type of communication you want to have before, during and after the pregnancy. Ensure you feel comfortable with her
3- Discuss openly things about their feeling about carrying tinns, abortion and amniocentesis
For a good surrogacy experience it’s very important that intended parents and surrogate mother are on the same page and share same expectations and goals.